The Broken American Male
“The American male is broken, and in his own brokenness, he is compromising his marriage and crippling his children. Immersed in a culture which is obsessed with success through competition, he is trained to forever feel like a failure. Rather than peering inside himself to discover his own unique gifts, he stares in front to see who has surpassed him, and behind, to see who is gaining on him. The modern American male has little self-esteem and is a muddle of broken dreams… In his distress, he turns to various forms of escape, designed to make him feel better about himself and numb his pain. Becoming a sports fanatic allows him to live vicariously through his favorite team and feel heroic. Through workaholism he convinces himself that one more hour at the office will bring him the success for which he is desperate. The attentions of another woman makes him feel like a winner. Alcohol numbs his heart even as it poisons his soul. And pornographic addiction, which is becoming an epidemic among American men, allows him to experience a similar numbness, the non-feeling of emotionlessness, which is the real reason so many men masturbate, for the bliss that follows sexual climax. He wishes not to feel because when he does feel, all he feels is pain.” —WorldNetDaily (US)
On first read, it’s hard not to think that the author of this piece — a rabbi who frequently writes about sexuality issues — is totally out of touch with touching himself. The “real” reason a guy jerks off is to experience “the non-feeling of emotionlessness?” No, says the knee-jerk reaction. The real reason a guy jerks off is to blow his wad. The real reason a guy jerks off is to attain in fantasy some sex object or position or activity that he can’t attain in reality. The real reason a guy jerks off is because it feels good. The real reason a guy jerks off is because it’s natural and even healthy. The real reason a guy jerks off is because he’s a guy.
On second read, you have to give the rabbi a little more credit than that. After all, what does masturbation achieve? Aside from giving pleasure — which is by no means negligible — it discharges a bit of energy, unties a knot of tension, restores homeostasis to a system overwrought by instinctive urges. In that sense, the rabbi is a little bit right: the “real” reason a man jerks off is not to attain numbness, exactly, but to dispense with that striving that constitutes sexual desire. What the rabbi calls numbness in a pejorative sense the regular guy might just call relaxed, at ease, satisfied.
And that’s really the point at issue. For the rabbi, jerking off is a symptom of the contemporary American male’s “brokenness.” For a more reasonable perspective, jerking off is just that — jerking off — and nothing more.
What a crock of shit! Here’s a Rabbi in all his infinite wisdom passing judgement on the American male. Maybe he needs to eat a ham sandwich and try a few pickled pig knuckles! How many times a day does ths asshole “whup his mule” then decide that if he’s a fucking looser, then every other male must be too.
What a crock of shit! A Rabbi in all his infinite wisdom has come to the conclusion that the American male is a looser because likes to beat off. Guess what! just about everybody jerks their pud, or rubs their clit! And it not just us Americans that have that pleasure. This Rabbi needs to go back to his abbey or cubbyhole, or wherever he came from, try a ham sandwich and a couple of pickled pig knuckles and rethink his statements.
Hey c’mon, Jews are always right. Don’t you know anything?
I just spent the last 4 hours bashing my bishop, oiling my baseball bat, stroking the salami, aka masturbation.
I need a far better pair of boxing gloves.
I don’t have any problem with a guy spanking his monkey – but what if you’re a woman married to that guy who’d much rather that the guy was fucking her, and giving her sexual pleasure too, instead of having an intimate relationship with his computer screen? This wouldn’t be a problem if guys could have multiple orgasms, but a lot of them can’t.
The rabbi goes on to say this about bad marital sex with broken guys:
“He wants sex with his wife – not because he loves sex, but because it relieves him of tension and helps him fall asleep. And in his lifelessness, he further alienates the wife who feels used and discarded.”
He’s not saying that Americans are losers because they masturbate; he’s saying that Americans masturbate because they believe they are losers. It has been a well known fact that a lot of Americans are a type 3 on the enneagram, a system of characterising people. A type three is a performer, someone who aims at success. Just like the Rabbi said, a type three focuses on what people think of that person, instead of simply looking at him- or herself. Nobody is forced to feel anything, if you’re miserable, that is because you’ve made yourself feel that way. So, to all those Americans out there who feel shocked and appalled by what the rabbi said, know that you probably feel that way because deep down you realise it is true, you do masturbate to get away from the life you feel miserable about and you do have sex with your wives as a substitution of masturbation instead of a passionate love making proces.
Sincerely,
HP
Huh? I always thought they did it because it feels good, and that’s the crux of any hedonistic society. The end result of orgasm is not feeling like a loooo-zer! There’s a winner, every time, folks! And maybe he DOESN’T want sex, at least not with the wife, ’cause “it’s just eaiser that way”? If so, it’s because: A lot of men are childish, selfish, lazy, hedonistic slobs, bless ‘em, we love them anyway, right girls? As long as they don’t stray, don’t hit you or the kids, or the cat, or the dog, and help pay the bills, who really cares??? If you want it, go grab him by the scruff of the neck, drag his sorry ass AWAY from the computer screen, and get to gettin’!!
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