Mailbag: Shave My Pussy?
PervScan doesn’t normally presume to offer advice. The outlook here is generally a mix of the analytical and the ironical, sometimes spiced with the agnostic and the sceptical, which is not the usual hold-your-hand sort of attitude adopted by purveyors of free advice. Nevertheless, the mailbag this week contained an email that somehow demanded response. “Curly pussy hair” wrote:
hi should i shave my pussy’s hair off? i think it is sexy but my husband likes to take the strands between his teeth when we are having oral sex. also he likes the erotic scent of the follicles after they have been rubbing up my pussy. he also thinks it is kinky to find those curly q’s in the bathtub after i take a shower. to tell you the truth, i can’t stand his pubic hair. do you know how disgusting it is to see him wearing a speedo at the beach or poolside with pubes coming out of swimsuit at the top and thigh region. boy, does he have a lot. and would you believe, he has the nerve to yank at those buggers — consciously. sometimes he will give me a smirk from the high dive if he knows i am watching him do that. when i was giving birth, he wouldn’t let the nurse shave me before the delivery bc he said it wasn’t necessary and what did woman back in colonial times do? well, after the birth, he was the one with the washcloth in hand removing clots of afterbirth and stuff. just thought i’d share my thoughts and comments with you all. bye.
Well, Curly, most married couples fight about money, so if pubic hair is your only source of dispute, consider yourself lucky. What’s more, the solution to your dilemma is relatively obvious. You don’t like pubes. He does. Why don’t you ask him to trim his below-the-belt beard? In exchange, offer to leave the hair on your pussy long enough to braid. In that way, you please each other. If he refuses, then he’s evidently a selfish fuck and you might as well be selfish too. If he won’t shave, then you should go ahead and do whatever it is that makes you feel good about yourself.
More generally, the question you pose points to a broader dilemma. In matters sexual, how does a person balance between the desire to please oneself and the desire to please one’s partner? Sometimes the two desires merge — if you enjoy giving head, for example, it’s win-win for both parties — and sometimes they diverge, as when you abandon all care for your partner to sprint that last few yards to orgasm. In the first case, when your desires are in unison, there’s obviously not a problem. But in the second case, when desires separate and even compete, it can be difficult to decide what to do. After all, in the ethics of sexuality, there aren’t always clear imperatives. If somebody has a loaf of bread and you’re hungry, it’s easy to see that it’s wrong (in most cases) to steal the bread from him. However, if your need to orgasm is going to cost another person his pleasure, it’s less clear what is the “right” thing to do.
Philosophy has had much to say about ethics but little to say about sexuality, at least until relatively recently, so it would be interesting to see someone attempt to work through a problem such as this. Plainly there is erotic egoism — “getting yours” — and erotic altruism, sacrifies one makes for the pleasure of others. How do they impinge on one another? What sorts of criteria govern the relationship between the two? How would they fit into the Platonic triumvirate of truth, beauty, and goodness? Can they be inferred from the deductive ethical system of Spinoza? Could you apply the categorical imperative of Kant to the problem of pubic hair?
well, i have the opposite problem. my husband shaved me when i was out cold from drinking too much a couple of months back. i cried and cried for hours while he just laughed.
I love being shaved. I feel clean and sexy. First time my boyfriend saw it he was in love! I love that he is a little hairy on his pubic area. His pubic hair feels so good against my bare vagina skin. I noticed too that ever since I shaved I have enhanced sensitivity down there. Now he comes in the shower and shaves my pubic area for me. It’s so nice that we share showers all the time.
I would love my wife to be shaved but she says she doesn’t want it as it may be uncomfortable. I think she really wants to try so how should I approach this subjest. I love her dearly and wouldn’t want to force her to do anything she is uncomfortable with. She’s very sexy and will normally try new things.
Iloved shaved pussies. And I love to shave pussy. I have done several women. its like licking ice cream. they look more naked.
There is this stuff called Coochy that makes shaving of any kind a less-than-painful occasion. I have very sensitive skin and couldn’t even shave my legs without getting irritation—nevermind my puss! One of my friends suggested that I try this stuff. Wow! It really does work. It’s wonderful. I can now shave my legs and armpits without getting horrible rashes. However, I stil can’t shave my girly parts without irritation. But, most people aren’t as sensitive as I am.
I like to shave. It looks cute and it does help increase your sensibility. But the first time my husband asked me to do it I just cried. Not because I didn’t like the idea but because of the way he asked. He told me I would look younger and like the girls in porn. Of course, this devastated me. You see, I’m older than him and it made me feel ancient and unattractive the way I was. I felt compared and as if he didn’t like me. If he just hadn’t mention that I would’ve been much happier then. I have even done it a few times without him asking just to surprise him… So please male reader, when you ask your girl to shave by any means don’t make her feel bad. Don’t compare her to someone else. Just tell her SHE would look beautiful and sexy. Make her feel like you want to try it for HER and not because you would like her to look like someone else. And just to clarify before someone throws stupid comments at me, I DO like porn and I’m very open to trying new things. Actually I have these new ideas very often. Okay?
This is easy, when i first got with her i told her what i liked and and didnt if she did what i liked we would never have problems, so i set what i liked, always keep her cunt bald, always sleep naked, never wear panties if she wears a dress or skirt and always wear a gstring to the beach, thats just to name a few…it took her a little bit to get use to now she loves it, but she did cry at first…..
A serious question about shaving. I am a female and I love the feeling of my pussy shaved. However it gets so irritated with red bumps and itching, etc that I can’t keep it up for more than a week at a time. It drives me crazy. Does anyone have any suggestions? I’d LOVE to keep it shaved for good. I have sensitive skin also. My shaved pussy is sexy but there is nothing sexy about a shaved pussy covered with red bumps and itching. HELP…PLEASE
Tina, you could go and have your pussy waxed. A good wax job will last three to four weeks. However, that is the most painful option. Another option is laser hair removal. It’s more expensive, but laser hair removal is permanent. The hair won’t grow back after it has been zapped with a laser five or six times. I’ve read that the laser feels like someone snapping a rubber band on your skin. It is not a pleasant experience, but the procedure only lasts about 15 minutes. The procedure has to be repeated five or six times to permanently remove the hair. Nads hair removal cream is one other option to make your pussy as smooth as possible, but some people are very sensitive to it. I use a MicroTouch Trimmer for my dick. It doesn’t shave as close as a razor, but it causes my balls to feel much more sensitive. I hope that helps.
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