What’s(maybe) even funnier, think of HOW MANY fat people there are, and, not being able to run as fast,carrying(pun intended) increased risk of heart disease and strokes, more likely to be passed up for a promotion, and yes, being less likely to fuck, obesity is an interesting form of suicide.

perhaps running ads, like “Drop that cake you fat bastard, or you’re dead. -Sincerely, Mother Nature” could help?

what are you talking about I know a lot of overweight and they have great sex lives

what narrow minded asses. you don’t have to use your cock to get past the (GUT) to perform sex there are other ways to compleat a sexual moment like oral sex or hell natures remidey THE HAND!!!!

I am a long-time visitor to your site, but have yet (to my recollection) posted a comment before. However, I have several reactions to your commentary on the referenced article, and feel the need to respond. As an overweight woman, I feel not only anger and frustration regarding the narrow-mindedness of your opinion, but sadness and the desire to “set the record straight.” First of all, being overweight should not be seen as an automatic character defect. There are those people who are legitimately overweight–those individuals who have great difficulties staying “skinny.” Genetics, slow metabolism, other physical or mental ailments…these all contribute to obesity. The fact that 60% of the American population is overweight or obese should indicate that, if nothing else, the phenomenon should be seen as more overreaching that a few perceived misfits. Secondly, being “skinny” is no guarantee that the said sleek individual will be healthy. I have taken yoga and tai chi classes with thin people, and I find them no better able than me to hold positions or maintain proper breathing techniques. In fact, in “mundane” circumstances, such as moving furniture or file boxes at the office, I am in fact stronger and more able to continue with our set pace than my more svelte coworkers. Lastly (at least for now), thinness is a cultural and societal requirment and standards of human beauty in America (and around the world) are set and determined by an industry…and capitalism. In my life I strive for health and knowledge…I refuse to spend my life trying to live up to an unreasonable and unattainable standard of beauty. So, next time you see a “fat” person, don’t be so quick to judge. And, as an overweight woman, I love sex, adore seduction, and am quite the vixen, so all I can say is you just don’t know what you’re missing. Cheers.

Regarding:

“But obesity, some will retort, is not a matter of having a weak will. It’s a psychopathology. It’s a disease. It’s genetic… And yet, if that’s the case, then an even weirder conclusion ensues. If it’s a pathology of any sort, does that mean that sexual problems are nature’s way of trying to suppress it? Does evolution try to weed out the fat gene by making it difficult for fat people to fuck?”

I hope that is meant to be a completely sarcastic, rhetorical question intended to inflame the opinions of your readers as opposed to an honest, thought-out question that you feel warrants merit.

First of all just let me say that average fat couple probably has a very normal sex life. But you can reach a point where intercourse becomes to much of a challenge. My wife and I have been married for 12 years and have one child. Due to the fact that we are both morbidly obese, we have not been able to achieve any form of intercourse in any position we’ve tried for at least the past 8 years.This is doesn’t mean we don’t have a sex life. We in fact at times we are very intimate with each other. There are other things that people of size can do to have a healthy sex life. Since both of us have been obese since childhood and come from obese families. We are not strangers to to problems people our size face daily. Things smaller people take for granted are not possible for us. We know other people stare and that dirty little question pops into their head. Believe me it happens to me too. Whenever I see a couple in the same situation as us. I wonder if they can manage and have they found a way to bypass their huge bellies and fat rolls. I wonder if they have found a way to breath during that kind of physical exertion. But those thoughts are usually brief. Because as you become heavier and heavier your priorities change. Sex no longer holds the atraction it once did. You actually begin to fear it. Because lets face it to most people fat is not very atractive. Most very obese people find their bodies repulsive and would lose the weight if they could. So does evolution try to weed out the fat gene? I doubt it. But does it make it difficult for fat people to fuck? Yes for some of us it does. I fact for some of us its down right impossible.

TO: All the above who have commented on how dangerous it is to be obese, as well as those who keep using the word disgusting (and yes, even to those who don’t even know how to correctly spell it, tsk, tsk…)–
As a woman who was painfully skinny as a child, very pretty and the ideal weight as a teen and young adult, and who is now an obese adult, here is a bit of info/wisdom you seem to desperatly need, and what my experiences enable me to pass on to you: It is the absolute shits being beautiful in America. I would rather be obese and be taken seriously by my peers and superiors at work, than the ideal weight and have my boobs stared at. I would rather be obese and be able to walk down the street, WITHOUT having to worry about catcalls and whistles–no, really, it is very intimidating. I feel safer, and more respected, as an obese woman. I have been bony, curvy, and now fat. I. CHOOSE. FAT. As for the health issue, well, dearies, we’re all gonna die, aren’t we? Of one thing, or another. What did Ewell Gibons die of, you remember, the Grape Nuts Health Nut? A HEART ATTACK! Love you, but unless I ask for it, keep your “good advice” to yourselves. The rest of you, hahaha, think about what I wrote. And then, think about your day. To you, I say, Good Luck raising girl children in this country. Oh, and Fatman, there is such a thing as taking a tongue in cheek joke a wee bit too far…knowwhatimean???

The whole idea of two grossly fat people having any form of sexual relations, is just to revolting to contemplate. We the normal size people of society can only hope that fat people go the way of the dinosaur. Even the idea of a morbidly obese person and a normal partner is ludicrous. Why would anyone in their right mind even consider have sex with a smelly gross hog. I’m sure I have offened some of you fat people and the fat fetish community but its true, obesity is disgusting and wrong. Obese people of all ages should be separated from normal society and placed on government controlled diets and exercise programs, until their fat bloated asses are reduced to normal levels. If that doesn’t work,
then forced gastric bypass should be the rule and I don’t care if you have to break up families and relationships to get it done. People involved in relationships with these obese pigs will need to be re-educated on the values of proper nutrition and a healthy lifestyle. They will have to be taught not to be enablers and that their fat fetish is perverted and wrong. I for one would not mind having to pay additinal taxes to fund these programs, if it would help save us from the gluttons. I’m very sorry to be so harsh but if we don’t do something soon, our society will face disaster. Childhood obesity is rising at an insane rate and at this rate, children born today, will be the first generation that will not outlive their parents. Its sad and frightening to see these kids weighing 2,3,4 even 500lbs waddling our streets. We have to start facing this dilemma and calling it what it is. obese people are not funny, benign, cute or jolly. They are a terrible danger to the survival of our medical system, to themselves and our race as a whole.

BTW. Fatman, that took some balls to admit to. My advice to you is lose weight you fat slob. You just might find your dick before it’s to late.

When my wife and I fuck, depending on how much weight she has in the front, sex can become very frustrating…and boring. Lately she’s been putting on weight again, and I HATE how her belly rubs up against mine when we’re fucking. It makes it difficult for me to deeply penetrate her.

To LusciousGoddess,

I find your comments interesting. I am an overweight, super obese man. And, in a way, I can “hide” in my weight. I’ve been overweight my ENTIRE life, and it hasn’t exactly been a choice.

At my heaviest I was 430 lbs. However, I am in the process of losing weight. You might find this funny, but many people think I’m a woman at my size, and it’s quite embarassing, and the catcalls and cr*p never stop. I envy you that you don’t get them.

They do it to me all the time, and I’m a man, and they think I’m a woman! I know no one will believe me but it’s true.

Since, I’ve been fat my whole life, I’ve never even had a date. I consider myself a heterosexual, but interesting the only people to flirt with me (which I rebuffed), and try to come on to me are guys. And, they know I’m a man. Kinda says something about the openness of homosexuals with regard to sex compared to heteros. However, that’s just not my thing.

I hope to be thin and to marry a wonderful, supportive woman one day. And, there’s nothing wrong with some stragically placed fat. ;-)

Anyway, there’s an alternative view for you. PERVSCAN, huh? Interesting what you find when you google “obesity”. ;-)

MrFat

Well….. to all the fat haters out there, ( one in mind comes to a certain poster, Non Fat) I just want to say that I am 5′10 inches tall and weigh 345 pounds. I am a female very aware of my body and love every curve, and every roll. My sex life has not changed one bit being fat.

I still land the most gorgeous men, self assured, holds a job, and not self hating little dweebs like some of these nerds on here degrading fat people.

There are many different ways for a fat person to have sex. One is to have the woman lay on the bed with a pillow underneath her behind to prop her up, while leaning her head and shoulders towards the edge of the bed to give her sort of an incline. I know to the SKINNY people it may sound oooohhh what’s the word I should use?? hmmm disgusting? Yes! That’s it! Distgusting! But who cares? You aren’t the one screwing the fat person.

And to say the least most fat women…. we ::: sigh::: do seem to give the best head. We may even tend to be a little kinkier than most skinny women. Most of us and I include myself don’t seem to have a problem with our sexuality. My boyfriend who is 6′4 275 with hardly no body fat on him loves me for who I am and in that respect I seem to just devour him. Also alot of guys with above average penis’s seem to prefer bigger women because their cervix’s are a little longer. NOT WIDER, I said longer. So it doesn’t hurt us or make the men feel like they are tearing us in two. The one’s on here posting rude and cruel posts about fat people I would think are a little ashamed that MAYBE their feeble little penis’s couldn’t handle a fat woman on a good day, even if I was to use a penis extender on them. It’s a shame. People are people. So if your mother was to become morbidly obese do to diabetes or some genetic disorder you would tell your own Mother, ” Hey ya fat B**! Lose some weight so dad can screw you easier?”
Keep your skinny women because even most skinny women wouldn’t want to screw you if they knew how cruel you are. Nothing wrong with people like you who couldn’t use a little viagra and a baseball bat for a cure. I got the bat? Do you have the viagra????

The only two women I dated were fat. Not morbidly obese, mind you, but fat. I prefer fat women, it’s a dominance thing. I’m female, and rather petit. I’m no twig, I’m 5′6″ and 149 lbs of toned muscle. But I don’t look fat, and that’s what turns me on. Size domination, someone larger taking on someone smaller, is just plain sexy. The first woman I ever had sex with was 5′2″ and 260 lbs. She was probably one of the most gorgeous girls alive. A real woman. God she was an awful person, but way sexier than any of those shitty little twigs everyone seems to adore.
I do admit I like skinny men, but they need to have big penises. *Shrug* A fetish-type interest.

I usually would be angry about this article. Come on people though, I mean you know where your coming. To a site with weird crap on it. It’s like a freakshow of sorts.

It’s like going to rotten.com and expecting empathy for the overweight from them. I mean, if you’re going to go to a site that demans people in a general sense, you shouldn’t be so surprised when your number is up.

Sex is no problem if only the woman is obese, women 400+lbs are incredible in bed from my experiance. Their weight does nothing but add to the pleasure of sex, watching their belly wobble and bounce. The bigger the better i say.

If there’s a will there’s a way.

Obese people should NOT have sex, at least not with the lights on. The very sight of these enormous pigs doing it is enough to make any normal person puke. Also to the fat lovers out there, descriptions of your sex life are completely unnecessary. Come on, do we really need to know. The normal people of this world don’t want to be included in your sick fetish. If you want to fuck a pig, go right ahead. Just don’t proclaim it to the world and don’t be drawing any mental pictures for the rest of us.

BTW, to fat and all that, I’m sure you think you’re hot but lets be serious for a moment. At 5′-10″ tall you should NOT weigh almost 350lbs. That is a gross amount of weight for anyone let alone a woman to be carrying around. You need to shed a lot of that bubbler. Then maybe really hot guys might just want fuck you and not just geeks with a fat fetish.

Let me conclude with this. You fat pigs can rant and rave all you want. But it’s a fact that the vast majority of people out there do not want to have sexual relations with you. Your sex life will forever be relegated to the joke pile of life. So my advice to you is lose weight, get healthy and stop kidding yourselves. You’re grotesque, unhealthy and need to do something about yourselves.

FAT PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE SEX!!! I am EXTREMELY ugly, but I’ve had a heck of a lot more sex than any fat person I know. In fact, only 2 fat people I know have even been naked with someone else. Every girl I know would rather have sex with a PIG, A REAL PIG before they even touch a fat man. FAT PEOPLE ARE A DISEASE!! OINK OINK OINK FATTY FAT FUCKS NEED TO FUCK OFF!

Ok so here it goes. before i start i know i can’t spell so don’t try and be hard by pointing it out. i’m guessing this is an american site seeing as everyone is using pounds insted of stone. well i’m 16. i weigh 9 stone and i’m 5′7. i don’t know what that is in pounds so don’t ask. i can deel with really fat people. if your overweight, fine. chubby, fine. hugable, fine. but if you are morbidly obese, just plain no! infact it doesn’t bother me if your fat, so long as you don’t complain about being fat and do fuck all about it. i know a guy who is fucking huge but its ok because he goes to a gym and goes swimming every week, so at least he got off his fat arse to do something about it. all the fat people who you all knew back in school will now come into one of these catagories. 1-even fatter. 2-BUFF. yes it may seem imposible but fat people when thier young may not have what they need to bcome thin ( you cant go to a gym at 5) so when they go to the gym they get obsessed and when they become thin don’t stop. they become body builders. i am known as an obsessed fat hater. but i’m not. at least the fat people who have wrote on here know thier fat and are either fine with the fact thier fat or working on looseing that fat. just don’t be fat, complain your fat and then go nto macdonalds and eat 20 fucking hamburgers with 10 nmilkshakes, and then think your being really good when you have a salad later on in the day… NO. FOR GOD SAKE PUT THE BURGER DOWN! YOU ARE FAT!
i hate it when you see them on talk shows. people usually look at themselves halfway and say, ” wow i need to loose some weight” and yo yo diet for the rest of thier lives but some people should have looked at themselves i tenth of the way and gone on a diet. and yes i know its tough shit for some people with medical conditions and i feel sorry for them even though they don’t want my sympathy. another thing i hate is when fat people were things too small for them. don’t try and shove your fat arse into a size 14 when your a 20. (our sizes are diffrent to yours. our size 10 is your size 8). ok so now ive said what i have to say and no doubt so fat arse will be unhappy with what ive said. honestly i don’t hate fat people just lazy fat people who don’t want to be fat.

I agree, fat people should not have sex. Mainly because there is an off chance that the fat pig of a woman might get pregnant and obese women almost always have obese children. The last thing we need is to expand the obesity problem. I’m not saying that their children start out obese, though some do, but obese parent pass their gross eating habits on to their offspring. This way the problem goes for generations.
If we don’t do something about these beached whales now, in ten years we’ll be up to our necks in them. Just imagine the cost to our healthcare system, the cost to businesses, the effect on our economy. These pigs are literally going to smother us with their blubber. Because of the fat acceptance movement this is the legacy we face.
I don’t know if these fat pigs are just ignorant of the facts facing them or they just wish to remain selfish greedy slobs. It seems to me that we need to modivate them to lose weight now or just provide them with all the food they can shovel down so they die sooner. Either way we as a society are going to have to pay for these fat blobs. Bottom line is don’t let fat people breed.

Does anyone really care if a obese person can have sex or not? Lets face it, super fat people more than likely don’t get much chance to have sex anyway. Those that claim they do are probably full of shit. Just stop and think about it for a moment. How many men or women that you know would even consider having sex with a big fat slob? I don’t know many. It seems to me that most of these gross pigs are more concerned about stuffing their fat faces than having any form of sex. In case you are blind or just stupid it isn’t hard to realize that any form of oral pleasure or gratification for these slobs comes from food and not sex. I’m not trying to say that fat people don’t want to have sex with someone, I’m sure they do. But as I stated before, who would want to have sex with them

Hey fat and all that, Why all the hostility? Just because someone doesn’t find fat women attractive, doesn’t mean they have a small penis. Maybe it means they just have good taste. Maybe when they have sex they don’t want to get squashed by a big bloated hog. Or maybe when they are having sex they don’t want a woman that smells like ode of rotten french fries.

BTW the next time you feel the need to descibe your 350lb fat chick sex lfe, please just stop,nobody wants that much detail. So shut the fuck up, eat another value meal and wait for your blubber encased heart to fail.

what assholes some you are…geez!

The idea of fat people having sex is not nearly as disturbing as the possible aftermath of such an act. An individual that I work with has a grossly obese wife, and I mean grossly obese! This chick must weigh 600lbs if she is an ounce. I mean she would have to lose 100 or more just to be classified down to morbidly obese. About seven months ago this couple or better yet quadruple received the wonderful news that Jabba the wife was expecting. Well let me tell you, if you what to see something hysterical and horrifying all at the same time, get one of these buffalo bitches pregnant and sit back and watch the food fly. I mean this fat hog must have gained about 80lbs so far and can’t even get out of bed. Her blood pressure and blood sugar levels are thru the roof, her appetite is off the chart. Her poor husband has to see to her every dirty little need. I can’t even tell you how many days of work Jabba’s poor husband has missed because of this blob he’s tied to. It’s almost like watching a science fiction movie. I know the last time I talked to Jabba’s husband he couldn’t wait for his beloved blubber bride to pop. But I couldn’t help thinking about what that would be like, imagine the size of the delivery table or what if the doctor needs a crane. Imagine the smell and the mess when baby Jabba explodes from mama Jabba’s enormous pulsating uterus. It’s really all to frightening to think about.
So the next time you get drunk and think about fucking your fat wife, please do yourself a favor, and shoot your dick. In the end it will all be worth it.

Since many fatties complain that their obesity is caused by genetics, then maybe the above article is not to far from the truth. Maybe the inability to have sex is one of natures ways of weeding out a flaw in the human genetic code. Before anyone gets all riled up over my statement, please be assured that I am not talking about the average overweight person who is 20, 30, or even 100lbs overweight. I’m talking about the 500lb teenager who can brake away from McDonalds or your neighbor the 1000 lb woman who needs to be removed from her bed with a crane. These are the type of people I’m taking about. These people must be some form of genetic aberrations. These people can’t be just another form of human diversity. The human body is not equipped to support all that blubber and it certainly isn’t normal. So think about it, maybe natural selection is somewhat responsible for dealing with these inhuman pigs. Why is it that fat women have so many fertility problems compared to their thinner counterparts? Why is it that hugely obese people develop so many life threatening illnesses and die at an early age? I think it just might be natures way of telling us to push away from the table before its to late.

Big fat white women can only fuck niggers. Thats why you see so many inter-racial white/black couples with a nigger and a far white bitch. No self respecting white man would go near those Lu-Lu Hogg cows that refer to themselves as BBWs.

Hmmm… interesting discussion. As a 550+ lb man, my friends are always amazed at how much sex I DO have. Am I an acquired taste? For sure. But there are LOTS of people out there (closeted as they may be) who find very large guys very sexy. I find myself sexy. My sex life is extremely fine, thank you very much. To each his own. Some people like muscle, some like red heads, others like soft, pendulous bellies and hairy man-tits. That’s what makes the world go ’round. Don’t criticize a world that you don’t know. I”m fat. I’m happy. And my sex life is VERY find, thank you.

What I hate is, being pretty big myself, I’ll be takin a stroll through the mall and I’ll see this very large woman eating donuts right out of the package before she even buys them. (this actually happened) And it pisses me off, because it’s people like her who are giving the idiots the fuel for stereotyping the rest of us. You better be damn sure I do something about my fat ass, but a half wit teenager who thinks he has all the answers to an age old system of chemical reactions would never stop to think- he’d probably see me as a festering glutton like the rest of ‘them’. As for sex, well, I enjoy it as much as anyone else whos been having sex for the past 10 years with the same spouse. Don’t hate and don’t share your facist, bitter, emo ideologies- like the “round em up” crap. I hear that a lot and I wonder what their parents grounded them for to make them such little hitlers.

I’m with all the people above that say whatever obese people choose to do in the privacy of their own home is up to them. Chances are there are some out there that are having more sex than the majority of us, and I say good on them. As for you arseholes who believe that you can just sit back and criticise people for being overweight, the reason most people got into the state they are in weight wise is probably due to low self esteem due to having to constantly hear comments such as those above daily. Please, keep the shallow comments about other people to yourselves and try to accept everybody for who they are inside instead of how they appear outside.
One last thing - for those of you who think that by empathising with the suffering that alot of overweight people go though I too, therefore, MUST be overweight you are mistaken. I am not overweight, nor would I be ashamed of it if I were in that position, I just simply hope that if I ever got to the stage where I might be in my life that I wouldn’t have to put up with shallow comments such as the ones i’ve read today, you should all be ashamed of yourselves!!!

Hmmm…I have fucked super fat guys, and the main problem is that most of the time you have to be on top, because they don’t have the energy to be on top. Also, most of them have really tiny penises, i don’t know if they just seem tiny because they are buried in fat, or if they are really small. Contrary to what one would think, fat guys do NOT give good head. They barely have any energy to do anything.

Another issue with fat men, is HYGEINE! Hello! Super-fatties cannot take showers easily, and they smell pretty rank. In addition to stuff that is “found” in the rolls of fat–gross as this is, I was with a super fat guy, and found a POTATO CHIP in one of his “layers”–who knew how long the thing had been there! GROTESQUE!

Of course, fatness is on a continuum…I have had lots of super fat men, who wieghed over 400. Then I have had some large men, who were definitely over 300.

So, why screw a fat guy? Hmmm…well most of the time they are fairly pathetic, so perhaps it is my way of “giving” something to the community. Sorry, but it is like charity work for me, I suppose. Most of the time the sex is not that great, and I can get plenty of normal guys. But I feel sorry for these super fat guys. Sometimes if I see one, I will start to talk to him. The really fat ones are difficult to find, there is like a “hidden society” of these fat people, who don’t leave their homes.

Hopefully, this is not condescending to fat people. I think they have a lot of issues, and sex is an important part of life, and if they are missing out because of being super fat, well, if that is not a motivator to lose wieght, what is??? But, I have met fat people, who would rather eat a cheesecake and fetticini alfredo than have sex, so maybe it what gives them pleasure….maybe they just never had really great, mind blowing sex.

I’m 30, American, and began gaining weight after college. At 5′10, and over 450 lbs, I can say that my weight is not without its problems, but I can still be intimate with a partner. Some of us are happy being fat, so lay off!!!

Being a supersized woman and being married to a supersized man, I find some of these comments extremely offensive. What does anyone care if fat people can have sex or not? What we do in privacy of our bedrooms isn’t anyone’s business. Just because some of us are to fat to have sex in the traditional ways, doesn’t mean we don’t have a sex life. So go ahead and make your stupid jokes and be disgusted by our appearance all you want. It’s not going to change the fact that fat people are just as sexual as thin people are. In fact we might just be more so than the average. Most fat people that I know revel in life’s oral pleasures and really try to enjoy our short time here. So to everyone who claims we either can’t have sex or shouldn’t have sex, I say kiss my enormous 500lb white ass.

This is specifically to the “Non Fat” jerk who commented on April 21, 2005. Our society will for sure face disaster with your STUPID ass in it and with people whom think and act as you do. I guess in your ideal of a perfect world we’d eliminate fat people the way Hitler tried to do with the Jews and other so called non Arians. It never ceases to amaze me the depths of some people’s prejudices and outright ignorance. History is full of embarrassing events that targeted hate towards specific groups and/or activities. It seems to attack one group until decency prevails and starts to open people’s eyes to such ridiculous behaviors and then low and behold we move on to another issue. I cannot phantom why in the hell sexual activities of the morbidly obese is even a factor that the so called “normal” people or anyone else for that matter, would think about much less be concerned about. There’s too many really important matters that has happened in past history and in present day times to be vexing over this absurd issue. Take a ride through history and there’s plenty of issues to drive this point home with. For example, I can’t even imagine the thought of owning another human being but in our country’s very makeup it was accepted and written in our body of government. Women didn’t fair much better but at least they weren’t shackled and chained, that is, unless their skin just so happened to be black and then they were dipped into a double dose of prejudice and discrimination, God forbid if they were fat too. I guess that would be a “three strikes, you’re out” kind of deal then.

Now let’s move on to the Jewish population not only here in this country but all over the world. To think that there is actually people who cannot accept the reality of the holocaust and Hitler’s plan for genocide when there was and is so much proof that such events happened. I guess it’s so much easier to turn a blind eye to such an atrocity rather than to accept that there is actually people who are capable of horrendous acts of this magnitude or else they agree with the actions one.

Let us not forget the Japanese Americans that suffered at the hands of our own government during the second World War. We had our own camps right here in our own back yard.

We look back and balk over the actions and the treatment of people because of their race, religion, or what have you and pat ourselves on the back because we want to see ourselves as informed decent caring people. Yet, there’s always a small group of people or from the likes of this web site there seems to be quite a few individuals that seem to surface that just do not think and act like the majority of the rest of the well meaning population. Which brings me to Mr. “Non Fat” and his idiotic way of thinking. You don’t have to like fat and obese people and I am without a doubt sure that they are so much better off not knowing and socializing with a pompous jerk like yourself. It’s like you have the mentality of a damn 10 year old!! Saying that fat people should be forced to lose weight or have gastric bypass is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard and trust me when I say that I have heard my share of pathetic things in my day, some of which came from the people posting comments on this site. In some cases morbid obesity is a genetic trait and people who are unfortunate to be cursed with such genes are no more to blame for them than a man is for being cursed with a rather small sex organ (which I’m sure you are all too familiar with). I guess this will be the next plight for people who are looking for a controversial cause to take on. Then again, it would seem almost like poetic justice if the women of this great world were to openly criticize men because of the size of their so called manhood. Maybe if there was more meat on some men’s “bone” then more women might be a little more compelled to shed the excess meat they have over their bones. There is one fact that cannot be denied when it comes to the size of a person’s body in comparison to the size of a man’s love muscle. There is always going to be ways one can work on to decrease one’s body size and to lose unwanted inches and with determination and endurance a pleasant result can be achieved. BUT, no matter how much determination or anything else you throw into the mix, a man isn’t going to grow inches in his “love zone”. There’s pills to make it go and go like the energizer bunny but sorry Mr. “Non Fat” because the only stretch you’re going to get is in your imagination. I’m sure you can stretch that pretty far as you’ve already proven with the repulsion of your previous words. Keep flapping your gums and voicing your opinions loudly “Non Fat” because then if luck would have it, you’ll get to experience being fat for a day or two even if only that fat is to be bestowed upon that big mouth of yours. That would be a beautiful sight to behold. Oh yeah, while we’re adding “hope” to your limited insight of the world by hoping that fat people will go as the way of dinosaurs so to speak, may there be hope for you that God doesn’t sentence you to the depths of hell for eternity where you so obviously belong. There’s one more point to ponder here before I let you get back to your self absorbed ass. Instead of preaching the importance of educating people on nutrition and a so called healthy lifestyle, you need to just get an education dude. I’m willing to bet that you didn’t even finish high school or so it seems with the lack of skills you have in the writing department. You need to learn the difference in the words “to” and “too” dumb ass not to mention the other rhetoric in your little editorial!! How in the hell is obesity a danger to our race moron? What race would you be referring to here? Do you even know what you are talking about or did you just throw your words together thinking that they sounded smart?

Maybe I sound angry and to a certain degree I am but not because I’m a fat chick with an attitude that can’t get a man to screw me with someone else’s dick much less his own. I’m not either, it’s just that from the looks of things, “Non Fat” and so many on this site are venting about such mundane problems and issues that really aren’t any of their damn business. Wake up people!!! Who gives a damn if obese people have sex or not except the one who’s going without it? Pick an issue that is a bit more pressing like maybe the multitude of families who were left homeless due to hurricane Katrina in New Orleans or the damn war in Iraq. Whether you’re for or against it, there are still young American troops getting killed everyday which is senseless at whatever angle you look at it. I’m not a bible toting religious fanatic that goes around preaching the word of whatever God you may choose to worship. I do know one thing, I doubt very seriously if external beauty is what’s going to get us in good graces with a supreme higher power. Gluttony is supposedly a sin but let us be reminded to cast judgment is also a sin and no pun intended but one sin does not bear heavier in weight than the other.

“Non Fat’s Wake Up Call!”

To the lunatic known as “Rhonda”, that had to be the most idiotic rambling bunch of bullshit I’ve ever had the pleasure of reading. Thanks for the entertainment “Fatty”. But seriously, the facts of the matter are, obesity is a HUGE health risk and risk to our medical and emergency services. But before we go any further, let me clarify this issue a little. My animosity does not extend to those individuals with genuine health or genetic related causes for their obesity. My issue is with the vast majority of fat people that just eat waaay too much and don’t exercise. These fat blobs not only swallow pizza by the ton, they also swallow copious amounts of money in the form of medical expenses, loss of work productivity and frivolous lawsuits. If unchecked, by the end of the next decade, obesity and its co-morbidities will become the number one killer of adults and children alike in the western world.
As far as pig sex goes, you’re right, who really cares if you fat bastards are getting any. Although I highly doubt you are. Mainly because all your time is spent stuffing your obese faces with anything you can get your hands on. But if you lumpy, landmasses breed you better think twice before passing you’re piss poor eating habits on to you’re innocent children. That wouldn’t exactly be fair, would it? Voluntarily saddling your children with your gross affliction should be a criminal offense. But we see it all the time, some fat mama at McDonalds stuffing her porky 2 yr. old full of French fries and I for one am sick of it. By condoning this sort of behavior we are sentencing an entire generation to a terrible obesity related death. Look at it this way “Tons of Fun”, when our medical system is bankrupt from the overwhelming number of obesity related disease cases, who do “YOU” think will have to pick up the tab?
So “Rhon-duh” you might want to stick your fat accepting head in the sand and live out your own little fantasy, but don’t criticize someone for wanting to help mankind to have a brighter future than the one we face today. Maybe my prescribed methods seem a little harsh. Maybe they only seem harsh because people like you would be on the receiving end. But we have to start somewhere. Otherwise it will be to late for millions of people. You may think I’m not concerned with other perceived more important issues, believe me I am. But if you think that the extreme rise in obesity is not an important issue facing society today, then you’re a fool and your huge ass is proof of your foolishness.
By the way, if you want to poke fun of my confusion regarding the usage of the words to and too, well, so be it. It doesn’t change the fact that you’re a self destructive, bloated, moron, blinded to the reality of your condition by your fat acceptance dogma. I guess well see just how understanding and non-judgmental you are of your blubber, when you’re crippled by your gluttonous ways. We’ll also see how tolerant you are of your fatness, when the grim reaper comes to call for you prematurely. Try desperately as you may but you won’t be able to ignore him and waddle away same way you are ignoring your fate and waddling through your piggish life. Also please leave your so-called God and your retarded notions of damnation out of this. If your God really did exist he would be the first to chastise porkers like you. After all, as you said gluttony is one of the Seven Deadly Sins and a self admitted fat pig like your self, is probably guilty of that one.
Oh, I almost forgot “FATSO”, your description of my male anatomy was dead wrong. I don’t have a small, penis, in fact I don’t have a penis at all. I’m a WOMAN you fat, bitch, and your suggestion that the size of the average male member could be the cause of the lack of desire of the fat female population to lose weight was ridiculous in the extreme. I guess the studies are correct. Fat really does kill brain cells. Hopefully this was YOUR wakeup call.

“Non Fat”, I stand corrected, not only can you not write but it’s obvious that you can’t read either. Maybe you need to go through and try to read what I wrote again and then you’ll see that I pointed out that I am not either fat nor unsexed. Not that it really matters because I guess I’m still a fat supporter I guess or in your eyes I am.

Excuse me for assuming that you were a man. I guess instead of not having a dick between your legs you are just a dick head and a BITCH.

I’ve got better things to do than to go surfing the net reading stupid bullshit like that of which you wrote. I accidentally fell upon the website and as I can see you plant your eyes on it on a regular basis. Poor thing, you don’t have anything better to do than to read about fat people and what other people say about them. It makes one wonder that it might not just be those so called obese fat slobs not getting any action between the sheets. Then again, it makes no difference to me if you have a dick shoved up your ass right now. Keep on reading dear and have fun responding to my reply because I won’t be back to read it. I have better things to do…..like have a life!!!!

‘Non Fat’, perhaps one day you will grow up and learn to understand that different people think differently.
Despite what your shallow mind may belive, fat women are beautiful and deserve appreciation. A 400+lb woman can be completely healthy, and enjoy a healthy sex life. A small minority may have health problems, but this is true of all people. Fat is without a doubt good for sex so long as it is the woman who is fat, if only a LOT more women would accept that fat is sexy and gain some weight.
To the fat ladies, you are the deffinition of female sexuality, the bigger you are the more feminine.

“Lovescurves” “A 400+lb woman can be completely healthy”….Ummm, no. That statement is a falsehood. Unless you are 7 feet tall nobody is meant to or needs to weight 400+lbs. Carrying that much weight is dangerous to your health, especially once you reach middle age. Ask any healthcare professional, even the so-called fat friendly ones and they will tell you the same thing. Statements like that just sound like fat fetish and fat acceptance bullshit. Don’t take this the wrong way, I’m not a fat hater, I’m a hard core FA. But I’ve always believed that the health of your woman should take precedence over the needs of your dick.

Hey Rhonda, rant and rave all you like. People like “non-fat” will never accept your point of view. But there is one thing she is right about. There are an awful lot of morbidly obese people in the US. Just look back about 40 years and you will see that a 400 lb woman was once a rarity and was usually only seen in sideshows. Now you can see literally TONS of them in and shopping malls, supermarkets and or just about any public place in America. In my office alone, I work with at least three people who must be in that weight range or more. In fact, one young lady has actually broken several office chairs. To support her incredible weight, we had to find her a heavy-duty chair. Last week she missed three days of work because the building elevators were down for repair and she could not climb the two flights of stairs necessary to get to our office. I really worry about her future health and wellbeing. It is not to hard to see that this growing trend in obesity will not end well for these people and as “non-fat” stated so poorly, we will all have to pay for this one way or another.

‘Non Fat’, perhaps one day you will grow up and learn to understand that different people think differently.
Despite what your shallow mind may belive, fat women are beautiful and deserve appreciation. A 400+lb woman can be completely healthy, and enjoy a healthy sex life. A small minority may have health problems, but this is true of all people. Fat is without a doubt good for sex so long as it is the woman who is fat, if only a LOT more women would accept that fat is sexy and gain some weight.
To the fat ladies, you are the deffinition of female sexuality, the bigger you are the more feminine.

Why do people turn a discussion about the ability of large people to make love into rants about how everyone must ‘get skinny or die!’.
I am currently with a woman who is about 5ft 3inches and 430lbs in your measurements. She has been large all her life, long before she met me, and is a happy and healthy person besides the narrow minded insults she recieves such as those spewed by some in here.

Who the hell are you to say that she doesnt deserve a sex life with somone who finds her amazingly beautiful? Keep your prejudices to yourselves, there are all sorts of people out there and they all deserve love and happiness.

Who says obese people can’t or shouldn’t have sex? My fiancé is supersized by anyone’s standards and our sex life is unbelievably, incredible. We also have a friend with an obese partner and I’m damn certain their sex life is pretty steamy also. In fact we all went on a vacation for two weeks this summer to Aruba and at the end of that two weeks, none of us could walk straight from having so much incredible sex. It seems that every spare moment that we had was taken up with some sort of sexual activity. We had sex on the beach, sex in the ocean, sex in every room of our condo even sex in the resort pool while other guests unknowingly looked on. Also it has been my experience that this type of behavior is not unusual. Because I have found that there is nothing sexier than a supersized woman who is comfortable in her own skin. It doesn’t matter if she weighs 250lbs or 600lbs this type of women just exudes sex appeal and what they may lack in mobility or stamina, they more than make up for in enthusiasm and willingness to experiment. Also I find that their abundant curves and luxurious extra soft padding are very hard to resist. Just for the record, my fiancé is 5’6” tall and weighs well over 500lbs She has been large all her life and has come to terms with that. She is happy with herself and is as active as her size permits. I worship every inch of her amazing body and everyday I thank the gods that she chose me to go through life with.

So to all those who say that fat people are asexual, I say you’re full of crap. Because I know from experience, that you are wrong. My fiancé is not an exception to the rule, she is what every woman is and wants what every woman wants. She is no different from her thin counterparts, she has the same needs and desires. The only difference is her dress size and if other people can’t see that then it’s their problem, not mine.

I JUST CANT BELIEVE SOME OF THE THINGS THE NARROW MINDED FOLKS ON HERE HAVE TO SAY ABOUT LARGE PEOPLE. EVERYONE HAS A RIGHT TO THEIR OWN OPINION, BUT DO YOU ALL HAVE TO BE SO CRUEL? SOME PEOPLE LIKE MYSELF, ARE MORBIDLY OBESE FROM A MEDICAL PROBLEM THAT CANT BE HELPED. I EAT HEALTHY, I HAVE A GOOD HEART, MY BLOOD PRESSURE IS NORMAL, ETC. JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS BIG DOESNT MEAN THEY ARENT HEALTHY. AND IT DOESNT MEAN THEY CANT HAVE SEX AND GOOD SEX AT THAT! I BECAME PHYSICALLY DISABLED BEFORE I BECAME MORBIDLY OBESE, AND AM NOW IN A WHEELCHAIR, AND IT MAKES ME SICK HOW MANY PEOPLE COMMENT THAT ITS TO BAD IM IN A WHEELCHAIR BECAUSE OF MY SIZE, WHAT THE HELL IS THIS???? IS IT A LAW THAT IF YOUR BIG YOU CANT DO THINGS THAT THIN PEOPLE DO? I DONT THINK PEOPLE SHOULD JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER, SOMETIMES WE CANT HELP THE COVER WE HAVE, BUT EVEN IF I WAS BIG BECAUSE OF EATING TO MUCH, SO WHAT? WHY IS IT ANYONE ELSES BUSINESS? IF YOU DONT LIKE HOW US PEOPLE OF SIZE LOOK….SIMPLY PUT, DONT LOOK AT US. I HAVE ARHTRITIS IN MY WHOLE BODY FROM AN ACCIDENT, THATS WHY IM IN A WHEELCHAIR, BUT GUESS WHAT????? I STILL HAVE SEX, AND ITS GREAT. SOME OF YOU ACT LIKE WE SHOULDNT FEEL ANY PLEASURE OR GET ENJOYMENT OUT OF LIFE JUST BECAUSE WE’RE BIG. WELL IM BIG, AND MY WIFE IS A BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN AND I FIND HER JUST AS SEXY AND DESIREABLE AS I DID WHEN SHE WAS 16 YEARS OLD, AND SHE WASNT BIG THEN. WE’VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 26 YEARS AND ARE STILL VERY MUCH IN LOVE AND HAVE A WONDERFUL SATISFYING SEX LIFE. I THINK LARGE WOMEN ARE MUCH MORE ATTRACTIVE AND SEXY THAN A SKINNY WOMAN ANY DAY, REMEMBER, NO BODY WANTS A BONE BUT A DOG.

Bub, the “Caps Lock” key is located to left of the “A” key, between the “Tab” and “Shift” keys. You made some good points, however, using all uppercase text makes you look like a tool.

Welcome to the Internet, enjoy your stay.

Only losers and morons are “attracted” to fat chicks. Fat women aren’t women; they’re things to be hidden. BBW is a contradiction in terms.

-ArkS-, your a moron. Everyone is different, fat chicks are just plain better in bed, get over it.

Is obesity bad for your sex life? I guess it all depends who is on top. But seriously, who really cares. If someone wants to get it on with a ton of fun then that’s their business, isn’t it? The truth of the matter is, fat people are people and they have the same desires and needs as thin people. Whether or not they can physically manage it or not is another story. I know that due to the shear size and required physical excursion of the super obese there are limitations. But this does not mean that they don’t have sex. It merely means that they must be more creative and improvise a bit more. My husband and I have been improvising for years now. In fact in the past we have improvised so well that we now have three incredible children.
Just because our bulk does not always allow us to be intimate in the traditional sense, it does not mean that we forego any form sexual relations. Even though it can be problematic for us with our combined weight of over half a ton, we are still able to satisfy our so-called primal urges. I suppose basically the only difference is that it takes us a little longer to find and activate our equipment than it does for you skinny people.
To those of you out there that have taken offense to this whole question of obesity and its effects on an individual’s sex life, I say lighten up (no pun intended). Don’t take these things so seriously. It’s natural for the so-called normals to be curious about us people of size. It’s part of human nature to be curious about the diverse human condition. It only becomes a problem when honest curiosity becomes ridicule and hostility. Then, and only then do we need to take action.
So for all the so-called normal people out there, the next time you have the pleasure of seeing or meeting a fat person or fat couple, do try to see them as people and not just big fat targets for your joking pleasure. Because like it or not fat people are people too and believe it or not most fat people do not enjoy being fat. Most would do something about their condition if they could. Many have tried rigorously (myself included) and most have failed. So until medical science finds an effective way to help us lose weight safely and conform to societies sense of normalcy, we will be here to stay.

To bornfat:
Your post was hilarious and I certainly hope it was NOT serious. Because I just got this awful mental picture of a monstrously fat woman being rolled in flower by her equally monstrous husband. I’ll bet people at carnivals will pay real money to watch this.

The hottest sex i’ve ever had has been with aggressive “BBWs”. I myself am very tall and toned, but I love delving into the softness of a large woman. The large women I know also tend to have good attitudes and be loving, uninhibited and ready to laugh and enjoy.
Large women are beautiful. Large women are Venus!

Wow! All of the sudden, horrible memories from my childhood came rushing back to me…kids picking at me for being overweight, my family constantly putting me on diets. I’ve been dieting off and on all my life. I finally found out less than a year ago that I do have a metabolic disorder. I do not like being fat and I am constantly trying to find ways to be healthier. I can honestly tell you, I’ve never been with an obese guy before. Also, I’ve never had a guy turn me down for sex before. During all that time of feeling worthless I did self-destructive things like having sex with whomever and eating unhealthy things. While it was a bad thing to do…now I know the purpose of all of it. I can prove all of you ignorant lame asses wrong. Fat girls can have sex and it can be good sex. No, we do not smell bad…those of us that choose to take care of ourselves. I smell quite nice actually. For the record, I have smelled quite a few skinny people and well…their shit smells bad too and I’m pretty certain they’re bodies smell bad too if they do not take care of them. I have been married to a quite attractive man for almost four years now and while my weight has went up and down I can honestly say the quality of sex has never changed. It has always been good and fat people can have flexible bodies too. Also fat women do tend to be tighter where it counts. Ok, now that I am done defending fat sex, now I will move on to another subject…health. I will be honest…I am not pro fat. I am pro loving myself. All these years I was taught to hate being fat. Well, while I was taught that, I also was being taught to hate me. Now twenty five years later, here I am at my fattest. I’m just starting to learn that it is ok to like myself. Now before you fat haters start yapping again…understand what I am saying. I am learning to LIKE myself…in turn I am starting to care more about my health. I don’t think people should ever give up on wanting to be more healthy. People like me who actually have a reason for being fat, should be out there researching and finding ways to pass on a healthy legacy to our children. I for one want to be living when my grandchildren are born. The rate of childhood obesity is climbing and a lot of parents are not taking responsibility for their children’s health. My parents only taught me to diet, they did not teach me exercise and eating healthy all the time. This is something I can change for my family. As for you skinny people that can flap your jaws and preach how bypass surgery should be required…I am ashamed. Instead of making yourselves productive in the outside world trying to help this problem, you lower yourself to smashing people with words and fake aliases on a discussion board where only a handful of people will come to. Be a positive example and clean your mouths out with soap…learn some different words besides pig and bitch. Have you no descency?? (shaking my head)

I hate to break the news to everyone here, but this whole argument about whether or not hugely obese people can have sex is ridiculous. Everyone knows big fat slobs almost never get any. Most of them spend inordinate amounts of their day stuffing their fat faces and searching for food. So when it comes right down to it, they don’t have the time in their day for sex. In most cases 90% of their oral pleasures are derived from gorging themselves the other 10% is probably achieved by grunting out a good dump.

BTW, When did a large segment of the US population under the age of 25 decide it was sheik to become fat, flabby, rude, pierced and tattooed slobs. Did I miss the memo concerning this grotesque aberration of human development? Has anyone else noticed this shit? It seems to have had an especially popular effect on the young girls of today. Most of them that I have seen have these wide, flat asses with enormous love handles overflowing out of these unflattering low-rise pants. What makes it even worse is most of them insist upon piercing their sloppy fat role that also hangs over their ass crack exposing pants. Then throw in a thong, the tribal tramp stamp in the middle of their bloated lower back a chain smoking habit a tongue piercing and you have a recipe for making the rest of the population projectile vomit. I find myself actually nostalgic for the 90s, when all that hideousness was at least concealed beneath yards of flannel.

J.T. you can have your opinion, personally I adore extra large young women wearing sext little outfits. Big thick belly, back and side rolls bulging out from a extra tight short top, beautiful thick arms in tank tops, skin tight low rise jeans with lots of flab hanging over.

Im sure the women you speak of i would consider not that big, as im not talking about chubby girls around 200, at least 300lbs+ and showing it all off is perfection.

Ladies, show off those sexy big bodies and dont stop eating!

Hey James

Your notion of a barely clothed 300+lb woman is perverse. Whatever you and the rest of the fat fetishist community say is DEAD wrong. There is no healthy reason why a woman in today’s day and age should be that obese. Anyone wishing to allowing their wife, girlfriend of whatever to become or remain that good damn fat is sentencing their loved one to a slow painful death. This is not prejudice talking, it’s medical fact. I’m not trying to preach here but just remember, heart disease is still the number one killer in this country and heart disease is the number one killer of obese people. Heart disease kills more women yearly than cancer, accidents and diabetes.

Just visiting,
Right………..
So say im at a bar having a drink, in walks an extra large beauty, I should get talking to her and tell her i’d love to bed her if only she wasnt so fat?

Big women get enough putdowns day in day out, me pretending to find them unattractive and not spending some mutually enjoyable time together as opposed to insulting them doesnt help anyone. These are women, not children, they make their own choices.

Life must be so simple in your black and white world.

James,

You may be into extra large women but it doesn’t change the medical facts of the issue. If you truly care about these women then encouraging them to eat without restraint and grow to 300+ lbs is ludicrous. There is no denying the fact that most severely obese people live short pain filled lives and no one should have to live or be encouraged to live that way. Any qualified healthcare professional will tell you that age and obesity do not mix. So stop thinking with your glands and start caring about those you profess to care about.
My world is not black and white but in my world choosing the correct side of this issue is a no-brainer. Maybe in your world it’s cool to encourage people to inflict harm on themselves but it’s not ok in mine. Look at it this way, if your wife or girlfriend hand a predisposition toward skin cancer, would you encourage her to sit out in the sun for long periods of time? Think about it.

Just visiting,
I’m not encouraging anyone to do anything, and for as long as there are large ladies and you are not the head of the morality police, myself and those large ladies will have a good time.

I have been fat all my life. At 40, I’m 5′5″ and 250lbs. In high school, the boys always wanted to go out with my thin pretty friends. It never really bothered me because most of my friends got used and taken for granted. As time went on, and maturity levels grew, the men realized that I wasnt vain like my counterparts.I dated more and had great sex with all of them. My husband and I have been together for 19 years, and we have the best sex!! I can do any position and we are always looking for different ones to keep things exciting. I work, keep the house clean and enjoy life to the fullest….swimming, dancing, playing badminton with our kids, etc etc. Other men tell my husband how lucky he is to have a real woman who isn’t out to see what she can get. I’ve had more of my husbands friends (which I’m not sure that is an appropriate phrase) make passes at me. As for fat people not smelling right, bull shit. I’m always clean, fresh, hair and makeup daily. I know some thin people who reek of body odor - what’s their excuse? Same as anyone else….lazy. My husband is very thin and tall, and to some women he may not be very attractive, but his personality makes him more handsome. If you are just looking for a one night stand fuck, then who cares. If you want a truly great, satisfying sex life, a loving relationship makes the difference….no matter what the size. But to each their own, and there is good and bad in everyone, dispite size, race etc. I’ve met and known fat and thin people alike who can be dirty lazy pigs….it’s how you present yourself and treat others that make your sex life or break it.

Both my husband and I are severly obese, we both are well over 400 lbs (and growing) and we have no problems having sex.

He fattened me up, and as I grew fatter we did it harder and longer.

We may look like 2 huge pigs while having sex, but let me tell you, we can do it.

Julie,

When my husband and I were first married and we were in the 400 lb range, we had very little difficulty doing it as well. But wait until you get to the 500lb plus range, things change. My husband is about 540 and I’m approaching 600 lbs. At this size, sometimes just trying to find each other’s privates can be a challenge. But we try to be creative and our physical limitations are more than made up for by our enthusiasm. But anyway who cares? I don’t know about you, but for me sexual intercourse doesn’t get me off nearly as well as a good meal.
If you think you two look like huge pigs having sex, you should see us. There is so much undulating flesh, sometimes I think we should just quit our jobs and sell tickets.

To bornfat AKA Queen of the stupid fat people

I have a better idea. Instead of selling tickets to watch you and your blubbery significant other have sex, while don’t you just make a video of you two pigs doing it. You could market it as a new diet program. Because I sure once the average fat person gets a glimpse of your huge quivering Jell-O-like bodies they will never eat again. Imagine all the money you and tubby hubby would make. Just imagine all the ring-dings you could buy and shovel into our fat face.

BTW, pigboat, congratulations on gorging yourself up to 600lbs. Now all you need to do to complete this incredibly greedy and gluttonous feat is develop diabetes, have your feet chopped off and die of congestive heart failure.

Don’t get me wrong I don’t hate fat people, just the stupid ones.

To Timmy:

Just because you don’t agree with my lifestyle, it doesn’t give you the right to openly wish harm on me. People like you should buy a clue and keep your hurtful and ignorant comments to yourself. Just because I am larger than average it doesn’t give people like you the right to treat me with disrespect. I’ve run into cretins like you every day of my life and they all feel that they have the right to make fun of me and treat me like I am less than human. But I got news for you creep you don’t have that right. MY weight and MY eating habits are MY business and NOT yours.
So get it through your thick skull, fat people are here to stay. We are your family members, friends and co-workers and idiots like you better get used to it.

BTW, I really shouldn’t get angry at an insignificant fly turd like you. You’re probably just bitter because a fat person with good taste turned you down for a date in high school.

I wonder why people are so intolerant of fat people. You marry all fit and in shape and then you get fat anyways. Obese people are still people, why the hate and discrimination? Why so much interest in wether their sex life is good or bad? Many non fat marriages have more sexual problems and on average, fat people are happier.

I hope and pray that all of you who hate fat so much have children who turn out to be what you now laugh at. That will hurt more than if it were you. Seeing your child tormented for someone elses pleasure is heartbreaking, even if your heart is totally black with hate. When your child is not given a chance to have a life because of their appearance, I hope your hearts break. I hope that pain goes with you forever, that will be more than enough punishment.

I’m sure fat people have sex. I’m sure even the huge bloaters you see at the mall must get something sometime. After all most of them have a fat tribe of protégés trailing after them just begging for crumbs. So their sexual activity is quite evident.
But the question really is, who the fuck would want to have sex with these blubbery humanoids? That my friends, is a far more interesting question than the one we are pursuing now. I mean who in their right mind would even consider sexual activity with these distended shambling horrors of the animal kingdom. I for one would rather go to a monastery and devote my life to celibacy before getting anywhere near a food crazed, wallowing, she-whale. These porkers are an affront to society and to themselves. They have no self respect and show that failing off at every turn by displaying their grossly inflated bodies in public. As for the people who take these pigs for wives, girlfriend, husbands and boyfriends, I think they should be either given medals for taking one for the team or locked away for psychiatric evaluation.
So can anyone answer this question, or is it just a strange unexplained phenomenon that ranks with the likes of Bigfoot sightings and cattle mutilations? I think all us norms what to know.

To the guy who has a 5′6″ 500 pound fiance……… WTF dude! That’s just fucking gross. I mean, there is being open minded and then there is being blind. She’s a slobbering, cottage cheesed pig and you are a total loser for crawling into bed with that cow!

Bill,

Just because you don’t find supersized women attractive there is no call for using that kind of terminology when referring to another mans woman. You don’t know these people and you have no right to criticize another mans taste in the female form. If this guy is happy with his 500lb woman then that’s his deal and not yours. Although my tastes in women do not run that big I thank god that there is diversity in this world and everyone is not an empty headed pez dispenser of a person like you. Your juvenile attitude and obvious lack of class speak volumes in terms of the kind of person you are and all indications are that you are an unenlightened intolerant bigoted sad sack of shit. In other words you appear to be the exact kind of person this world needs less of.

I married a woman who is fat. She is fun, and we have good sex, but their is very little visual attraction, and she doesn’t dance or strip. It was a terrible sacrifice for me, but I love her and just want people to know, 4 years ago, you overweights would have called me terrible names, now I’m “openminded” and mostly happy, but always looking over her shoulder at every skinny ass woman who walks by. Its kind of depressing. My point is don’t let yourselves go, people. Be strong and represent your race, be happy and healthy, and don’t accept gross fat. I don’t mean pregnant fat or holiday excess or freshman 15, I mean FAT

Oh My God!
Is this what we have become? Seriously, for all of you fat phobic, fat hating people who have posted, I want you to take a good look in the mirror. Unless you haven’t noticed, YOU ARE NOT PERFECT!!! How many of you haters don’t have a well defined muscular body (the so called “perfect” physique), money, a good job, nice teeth, hair, skin without imperfection and blemishes, a nice sex organ, a good personality, etc….? Huh? I can assume it is all of you since you are just as human as the rest of us. I have always been very vain and narcissistic, and has have been one to easily find flaws no matter what. I would find you equally as repulsive as you find them simply because of the attitude you have. I was made fun of a lot in school, not because I was fat, but because I didn’t have money. That hurt a lot. I have always been vain, but I can easily admit my flaws. I also try to be very accepting of others even if I disagree.

I mean, it is very true, obesity is an epidemic and comes with a variety of health risks. We all know that. We are adults and we make our decisions. Ok, so, the US has an abundance of overweight people, in fact there is such an abundance that you can’t help but know a few, especially in southern states. How do you treat them? What do you call your overweight friends, family, neighbors, and coworkers? Would you call your grandma or mom a hog? How would they feel if they knew you thought they were disgusting?

Here is a bit about me. I am 21, I’m not fat, and a great number of people find me attractive. I have had an eating disorder for 10 years. It nearly killed me. Why did I have it? Because I wanted to be liked by asses like you! I have finally came to terms with the REALITY that if I diet down to 90 pounds, I wont be healthy. I learned to start accepting myself and my eating disorder went away for the most part. I was miserable the whole time I was losing weight, and I hated myself because I never felt good enough. When it ended of course I put on a little weight and went to 140. Ya know what though? Im finally happy with how I look. If I gain some, oh well. I’m still going to make sure I look good and take care of myself. Also, it will keep rude people like many of you away.

Eventhough I am of average weight, I think the most important thing is too not judge others because they are different. People who are very overweight are still people that have feelings and a desire to be loved just like you and I. It is wrong to wish ill upon them. Also, who really cares what their sex life is like anyway? I know a lot of larger people, and they live very fulfilling sex lives. Yes, it is true, a lot of people happen to like somebody with weight on them. It is their PREFERENCE, just like you like skinny people. My husband, is 6′1 and 135. I like him the way he is, but if something happened and he gained weight, it would be okay and I would still love him.

Before I close, just remember one thing

KARMA IS A BITCH

Thanks for you time,

Alex

u know u guys out here. talking about fat people haven’t u ever looked in mirror lately. ur not special what makes u soooo special ur even more stupid for talking so much crap. u need a fucking life what u can do fat people can do it better. and they treat u better.

hey bill the size does not matter is the way they treat u.and over weight people are loveable.bill bill bill u need a life buddy and stop hating on people u love.

I’ve been reading the comments on this website and I think many people here are missing the mark somewhat. This subject is painfully familiar to me and it is taking a lot of courage for me to even post a comment on the subject but here goes.
All this talk about whether or not fat couples can have sex is irrelevant. Speaking form experience fat people have an extremely difficult time just finding a partner that will even consent to have sex with them. Being a big guy I find myself unable to find a woman that will even give me a second look. I guess being with a guy that weighs almost 600lbs is a little intimidating for most women. But even when I was smaller the pickings were extremely slim. I’m 36 years old, tall, decent looking, clean and have a good job but I still can’t get a date. I’ve been fat since childhood, my weight has risen and fallen with various attempts at dieting and my luck with the ladies has always been terrible. Various people have tried to fix me up with girls on at least a dozen separate occasions only to find that each of the women all said I was too heavy to consider dating seriously. One even flat out refused to be seen in public with me. So I guess what I’m trying to say is that obesity really is bad for your sex life. It limits your ability to have sex not because you are too big to do so but it limits the choices you have and the partners that are willing to have sex with you. I understand it is a little easier for heavy women to find dates mainly because of social networks geared toward guys that prefer full figured women but for us fat guys finding a woman that finds our bodies attractive is not an easy task. In my entire adult life I’ve only had one sexual partner and that one time in my opinion was a fetish encounter with a woman that was into feederism. We dated for a short while and once she found out I wasn’t into gaining weight she dumped me for a fat guy who was desperate enough to try and kill himself for a little female attention. Looking back on it, I should have just submitted and gained the weight. As it is I’m considered huge by all accounts so would a few extra pound really have mattered? I think not. At least I would have gotten laid more often.
At this point in my life I’ve pretty much given up on ever having a normal sexual relationship with the opposite sex. I’ve even been considering trying the gay scene. They seem to be more receptive to fat men than most women do. I never considered myself gay but I’m tired of getting shot down by women that are obviously repulsed by my size and about now I’m willing to try anything. Maybe I’m not looking in the right places. I’ve tried dating services internet and otherwise to no avail. I’m not into the club scene, I’m too fat too dance in public and blind dates have been a disaster. I would just like to have the chance at meeting someone and having a sexual encounter before I get too old to care. So if anyone can give an unhappy fat guy some advice I sure would appreciate it.
In closing I would like to reiterate that fat people are sexual beings the same as thin people are. We fatties just have a tougher time meeting and hooking up with individuals interested in having a sexual relationship with us. Given the chance I’m sure we can have sex just like anyone else.

Big Jim:

At 600lbs no one in their right mind gay or straight will want to be in a relationship with you let alone have sex with you. Your only hope is to lose weight by whatever means you can stand. 600lbs is an inhuman amount of weight to be carrying and if you don’t do something about your obesity or you will become immobile and die smothered by your own bloated body. Maybe you should try weight loss surgery before you try to have sex with anyone. Or better yet just STOP EATING SO FUCKING MUCH. Christ, at 600lbs you must look like a prize pig at a county fair. You also probably smell bad as well. It’s a fact that everyone as big as you, without exception has hygiene problems. Especially since you have no one in your life to help you wash between your disgusting folds or help you wipe your enormous disgusting ass. My brother is married to a 500lb whiny pig of a bitch and he complains continuously that he has to wash her twice a day or she will just stink like rancid fish. I would expect that a hog like you would be no different. Guys like you make us fit and active males sick with your laziness and gluttony. Being a gay man, I wouldn’t want to get anywhere near you let alone make love to you. Fat men tend to be extremely lazy, eat and drink far too much for their own good, sweat profusely and die young. Being as obese as you is a sign that you have serious character flaws that need to be addressed before you should ever think of involving yourself with another human being. You really need help and you need to stop and think about what you are doing to yourself and those family members that might actually give a shit about your life. You need to stop eating today and get on a diet ASAP. Then maybe after you lose several hundred pounds you might be able to get laid. I can’t even imagine what carrying all that blubber around everyday must be like. Can you stand up without help? Can you walk faster than a slow ponderous waddle and just how far can you travel without getting out of breath? You must be a sad case to behold.
Hopefully I have given you some insight as to why you can’t get someone to do the nasty with you. You need to work out your problems before anyone will be attracted enough to you to have sex with you. Of course there are guys out there that like what we call super chubs or bears, which are just nice names for fat fucks like you, but the individuals that are into that shit tend to be freaks themselves and are really to be avoided.

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